When we interact with others with true sincerity, the other person will more often than not come to respect and value our own character.

Buddhism Day by Day

Wisdom for Modern Life by Daisaku Ikeda
Monday, June 17, 2013:

 

When we interact with others with true sincerity, the other person will more often than not come to respect and value our own character. And this is all the more so when our actions are based on prayer.

 

Conversely, holding others in contempt only leads to being held in contempt oneself: one whose life is tainted by feelings of hate toward others will come to be reviled by others.  Let us open the path to mutual respect and harmonious coexistence so as to bring an end to this vicious circle that has long been part of human destiny.